Lisa Kudrow Started Watching ‘Friends’ After Matthew Perry’s Death

Lisa Kudrow shared that she’s only been able to watch Friends after the death of co-star Matthew Perry. Kudrow touched on this during an appearance on Conan O’Brien Needs A…

Actor Matthew Perry and actress Lisa Kudrow attend Phoenix House's 12th Annual Triumph For Teens Awards Gala at the Montage Beverly Hills on June 15, 2015 in Beverly Hills, California.
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Lisa Kudrow shared that she's only been able to watch Friends after the death of co-star Matthew Perry.

Kudrow touched on this during an appearance on Conan O'Brien Needs A Friend. Coincidently, Kudrow's appearance on the podcast is apt since she is a longtime friend of O'Brien's for decades, dating before she became a household name from Friends.

"I used to not be able to watch it at all," said Kudrow. "I mean, I'd see it on and be mildly interested, and then I'd see me and say, 'That's enough of that.' I can't bear it. After Matthew died, I could start watching the show again, because it wasn't about me. It had to do with him for some reason."

She continued, "So, I have started watching 'Friends,' not started like [from] season one, but there are marathons on, and I have spent at times, since he died, all day long watching the show...Everyone is phenomenally hilarious to me."

O'Brien then talked about how Kudrow would call and tell him during the early days of Friends just how funny Perry was. In the back of his mind, O'Brien admitted to being a little bit jealous that this new guy was making his close friend laugh so much, when that was what he did. Kudrow reassured him that he's still the funniest person she's met, but when she first started working with Perry, she was in awe of the way he played Chandler Bing, particularly he's comedic timing.

Perry died on October 28, 2023 at age 54. Following his death, the surviving cast members of Friends shared a joint statement on his passing. Afterward, they each shared individual statements in tribute to Perry.

Kudrow was the last cast member to share an individual tribute, which she did via Instagram. She shared a vintage photo of her with Perry before Friends even premiered. Kudrow wrote as the caption, "Shot the pilot, 'Friends Like Us,' got picked up, then immediately, we were at the NBC Upfronts."

She continued, "Then…You suggested we play poker AND made it so much fun while we initially bonded. Thank you for that. Thank you for making me laugh so hard at something you said, that my muscles ached, and tears poured down my face EVERY DAY."

Kudrow added, "Thank you for your open heart in a six-way relationship that required compromise. And a lot of 'talking.' Thank you for showing up at work when you weren’t well and then, being completely brilliant. Thank you for the best 10 years a person gets to have. Thank you for trusting me. Thank you for all I learned about GRACE and LOVE through knowing you."

She sweetly concluded, "Thank you for the time I got to have with you, Matthew."

Friends remains one of the biggest pop culture phenomenons ever. Among the show's most beloved episodes are its Thanksgiving episodes.

So, what better time than now to rank these ten Friends episodes? If you're checking this out after Thanksgiving, just make a sandwich with a "moist maker" and enjoy!

10. The One Where Chandler Doesn’t Like Dogs (Season 7, Episode 8)

Compared to the other Thanksgiving episodes, "The One Where Chandler Doesn't Like Dogs" just doesn't measure up, but that doesn't mean there aren't some great moments. Seeing Ross frustrated by Chandler's 50 states game is super funny, and learning Chandler doesn't like dogs is one of his more ridiculous quirks. Side note: Clunkers is an adorable name for a dog.

9. The One With the List (Season 2, Episode 8)

Following his magical first kiss with Rachel after her drunken "I am over you" phone call, Ross has to figure out whether or not to break up with his girlfriend, Julie. How does he figure that out? By making a pro/con list with Chandler which hits the fan as soon as Rachel sees it. Meanwhile, Monica gets a job at a firm and is tasked with coming up with Thanksgiving recipes for their new product, Mockolate, a chocolate substitute. A great episode, but it just lacks that Thanksgiving zest other episodes have. However, it does have Michael McKean guest-starring as Monica's new boss and Phoebe's song "Two of Them Kissed Last Night."

8.  The One With Rachel’s Other Sister (Season 9, Episode 8)

Rachel's sister, Amy (Christina Applegate), unexpectantly shows up and is rude to everyone. (Applegate won an Emmy for Outstanding Guest Actress in a Comedy Series for her performance.) Joey forgets to show up to appear on a float in the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade with his fellow Days of Our Lives castmates. Monica is freaking out over using her wedding china during Thanksgiving dinner. There's also drama around who would raise newly born Emma if both Ross and Rachel died. Basically, this episode is more stuffed with Thanksgiving hijinks than any turkey.

7. The One Where Underdog Gets Away (Season 1, Episode 9)

You never forget your first, and "The One Where Underdog Gets Away" helped set the bar for Friends Thanksgiving episodes to come. A series of random events lead to the gang spending the holiday together. (However, Joey's reason involving becoming the poster boy for V.D. after a modeling gig gone wrong is the funniest.) We also learn Chandler's disdain for the holiday stems from his parents announcing they were divorcing on Thanksgiving when he was a young boy. As a result, he doesn't eat any traditional Thanksgiving food and opts for a feast of tomato soup, grilled cheese, and a large bag of Funyuns. That feast saves the day after dinner is ruined because everyone is locked out of Monica and Rachel's apartment due to checking out the Underdog balloon that escaped from the Macy's Thanksgiving parade.

6. The One With Chandler in a Box (Season 4, Episode 8)

How do you win a friend back after kissing his girlfriend? You do some serious thinking inside a box, or at least that's how Joey and Chandler attempt to resolve their issues. Monica provides some hilariously awkward moments trying to get involved with the son of her ex-boyfriend/ophthalmologist, Richard, after a fateful eye injury. We also learn Rachel always exchanges gifts she receives, which puts a wrench in the group determining their "Secret Santa" gift exchange. Plenty of great character moments in this Thanksgiving episode, especially from Chandler who still manages to bring the funny even though he's hanging out in a box.

5. The One With the Late Thanksgiving (Season 10, Episode 8)

Monica doesn't want to host Thanksgiving this year, but she is convinced into doing so by the rest of the group. How do they repay her? By being late, which is a massive Monica no-no. Joey and Ross were at a New York Rangers game, while Phoebe and Rachel were entering Emma in a baby beauty pageant. However, after plenty of arguing, Monica gets over everyone's tardiness when she and Chandler, who are unable to conceive, receive a phone call from an adoption agency informing them they were getting a baby. A wonderful, feel-good ending to the final Friends Thanksgiving episode.

4. The One With the Football (Season 3, Episode 9)

Monica and Ross' sibling rivalry is the centerpiece to this hilarious Thanksgiving episode that sees the group playing a game of three-on-three touch football. The Gellers used to play a football game every Thanksgiving, appropriately called "The Geller Bowl," and the winner would get "The Geller Cup," which was a Troll doll nailed to a piece of wood. After a violent "Geller Bowl 6," Monica and Ross' dad threw "The Geller Cup" in a nearby lake, and they weren't allowed to play football ever again. Monica would later reveal she fished the trophy out of the lake and has been holding onto it for years, and it becomes the prize during the three-on-three game. Add to this madness Chandler and Joey attempting to win the same girl, and the entire episode is a prime example of why Friends was so popular.

3. The One Where Ross Got High (Season 6, Episode 9)

Chandler and Monica, who just moved in together, are hosting Thanksgiving, and Judy and Jack Geller are coming over, but they don't care for Chandler and don't know he's moved in. Rachel, meanwhile, is tasked with making Thanksgiving dessert, but the pages for the recipe get stuck together in the magazine she's referencing, and she ends up making an English trifle that also has shepherd's pie ingredients. The episode culminates in an epic confession of various secrets that stun Judy and Jack, but they help them to final like Chandler. It's basically a Thanksgiving trainwreck/miracle.

2. The One With the Rumor (Season 8, Episode 9)

Brad Pitt plays Will Colbert, a high school friend of Monica's, who also struggled with his weight, that's in New York City on business. After running into him and learning he's away from home on Thanksgiving, she invites the now-thin Will to dinner. Will didn't realize Rachel, who he hated in high school, was going to be there. Obviously, wackiness ensues including the reveal that Will started a rumor in high school that Rachel was intersex. This episode is easily one of the most publicized episodes in Friends history thanks to the appearance by Pitt, who was married to Jennifer Aniston at the time. Oh, and Joey's Thanksgiving pants are classic!

1. The One With All the Thanksgivings (Season 5, Episode 8)

"The One With All the Thanksgivings" is the definitive Friends Thanksgiving episode. The flashbacks, even the ones of Phoebe's past lives, provide important backstory for the characters. We find out that a rude comment Chandler made about Monica's weight during Thanksgiving 1987 was the reason why she lost so much weight, and that same comment is also the reason why Monica accidentally cut off Chandler's toe during Thanksgiving 1988. At this point, Monica and Chandler, as a couple, is still very new and only Joey knows about them. Chandler doesn't take the stories well, however, Monica makes it up to him by sticking her head inside a turkey (a reference to a flashback of Joey getting his head stuck in a turkey), and Chandler tells Monica he loves her for the first time, thus, sending us slowly down the road of one of the most important relationships in the entire series.